FATHERS...

While talking to a good friend of mine on the phone the topic "fathers" comes up in the conversation. She says something that is rather interesting, she said that I wouldn't know about something because I at least had a father figure in my life and she didn't. She asked me why is it that she is the way she is? She said how about I research that and write about it. So as the retard that I am, I will. I guess this topic interested me so much because I want to study sociology: the study of society and human behavior. As I'm doing some research on this topic it comes to no surprise to me what I find out. For some who grow up without a father say that it doesn't matter to them that they didn't have one. But in fact study show that girls reach early puberty with a chance of early pregnancy. And boys raised without a father are, on average, more than twice as likely as other boys to end up jailed. What is it about a father that makes one the way they are. The lack of a father figure in a girls life sometimes makes them not get attached to men. There for leaving them to be a cold hearted person in hope for love. But how can they found that if they don't give themselves a chance to find it. And for other girls they get a little too attached too fast. Some women became sluts and don't care. But they also seek the attention that they never received from a male before. Forcing some men to get what they want and run away. But women who grow up without a father aren't the only ones with some problems. As strange as it may be men who grew up without a father figure tend to be more manly. Some hate there dads and say that they would never be like there deadbeat dad and work really hard not to be like them. While others become what they hate the most, there dads. It is fact that a lot of times history repeats itself. What makes a father so important to people that it defines ones future? Is a fathers love that important? Well I just have to keep doing some more research it understand it all. But I'm doing ok so far.